Ready-made speech for a wedding

For family & friends to the bride and groom

How nice that you are going to make a speech. Opening your heart in front of a large group of people is hugely exciting. Below are some examples to get you started. Good luck!

Examples

Advice for a personalised speech

Example 1

Dear [bride/groom] and [bride/groom],

As I stand here today, watching you two exchange your vows and commit to a life of love and partnership, I am overcome with emotion.

I know [bride/groom] al [number] years, and in that time I have seen with my own eyes the love and affection that [bride/groom] has for [bride/groom]. From the moment I [bride/groom] met, I knew this was a special relationship, one meant to last a lifetime.

As I watch you come together in your lives today, I am filled with joy and happiness. I am so grateful to have been part of your journey and witnessed the love you share.

[Bride/groom] and [bride/groom], may your marriage be filled with love, laughter and happiness. May you support and encourage each other, and may your love grow stronger every day.

Congratulations on this wonderful occasion. I wish you both all the best as you begin your new life together.

With love, [Your name]

Example 2

"Dear family, friends and bride and groom,

I am so honoured to be here today to celebrate the union of two amazing people (bride and groom) celebrate. They have known each other for many years and their friendship has grown into something very beautiful.

Today is a holiday and I am sure the couple is feeling a mix of emotions, happiness, joy and excitement about the future. To mark this special day, let me offer a few words of advice.

First, always be honest with each other. Always communicate your feelings and be open to listening to each other. Respect each other's opinions and never take each other for granted.

Second, make sure you always make time for each other. In the hustle and bustle of life, it is easy to forget how important it is to make time for your partner.

Third, don't forget to laugh and have fun together. Life is too short to take it too seriously.

Finally, my last piece of advice is to never forget why you are together. You are two people who love each other very much, and that is the most important thing.

So, for (bride and groom), may your marriage be filled with love, laughter and joy. Congratulations"

Example 3

"Good evening everyone,

I am so honoured and happy to be here today to celebrate this wonderful union.

First, I want to [bride and groom] thank them for having me here and for inviting us all to share this special day with them.

When [bride and groom] came together for the first time, I noticed how happy they were. They had a warmth around them that was infectious, and it was clear to everyone around them that they were meant for each other.

Since then, I have had the pleasure of watching their love grow and blossom. I have had the honour of being there when they first met, and now to be there when they say "yes" to each other today.

This day is a testament to the strength of their love and commitment to each other. [Bride and groom], may the coming years be filled with love, joy and happiness.

Cheers to the happy couple!"

Example 4

"Dear people,

I want to thank you all for being here today to celebrate this special occasion.

I am sure you all know why we are here tonight. Our two special friends, [bride] and [groom] to see them get married and we are also here to send them off with our love and best wishes.

I have been fortunate to know these two for many years and I can say without a doubt that they are two of the most kind, caring and considerate people I know. It is beautiful to witness two people who understand and appreciate each other like [bride] and [groom] do that.

Marriage is a beautiful thing and I am so moved to see how [bride] and [groom] begin this new journey together. I know it will not be easy, but with love, patience and understanding, they will get through everything.

So let's all raise a glass to [bride] and [groom] And wishing them all the best in their new life together! Congratulations!”

Advice for a personalised speech:

A speech holding at a wedding is an exciting but honourable task. You want to make sure you honour the couple and your best wishes for their future together, but you also want to make sure you share the speech don't make it too long or add anything inappropriate. Follow these tips to ensure you have a great speech holds.

1. Consider what suits them

Start by thinking about the couple and their relationship. What do you know about them that put you in the speech can include? What makes their relationship unique? Use this information to create aspeech make that is personalised and meaningful.

2. Organise

Make a list of all the points you have in the speech want to make. Prioritise them so you know which ones should come first and which ones you can skip if you are running out of time.

3. Practice

Practise your speech. Speak it out loud a few times so you can get familiar with the words. It also helps to practise in front of a mirror or with friends so you can get feedback on how it sounds.

4. Make jokes

Make sure you have a few funny stories on hand. You don't have to have the whole speech funny, but a few funny anecdotes or jokes in your speech can break the tension.

5. The duration of the speech

A good speech is short and sweet so that everyone keeps their attention. Around 5 minutes is often a good time.

6. Elements to build the speech

Here is a comprehensive collection of elements you can use to put together a personalised wedding speech. You can combine or modify these elements as you wish to create the perfect speech create for the occasion.

Introduction and Welcome

• Welcoming the Guests:
  • "Dear family and friends, what an honour to see you all here today. Thank you for sharing this special day with us."
  • "Welcome, everyone! We are so glad you are here to join us in celebrating this important step in our lives."
• Expressing Gratitude for Presence:
  • "It means so much to us that you are here today. Your presence makes this day complete."
  • "We want to thank you for your love and support, not just today, but over all these years."
• Remembering Those Who Cannot Be There:
  • "Let us also take a moment to remember those who cannot be with us today, but whom we carry in our hearts."
  • "Although not everyone can be physically present, we feel their love and support here with us."

Personal Stories and Reflections

• How You Met:
  • "It seems like it was yesterday that we met. From that first moment, I felt a click I had never felt before."
  • "Our first meeting may have been unexpected, but from that moment, I knew there was something special between us," he says.
• Growing as a Couple:
  • "In the time we spent together, we learned so much - about each other, about ourselves and about what it means to truly love someone."
  • "Every adventure we have taken together has made us stronger and brought us closer together."
• The Impact of Relationship on Your Life:
  • "Since I met you, my life has taken on new meaning. You inspire me to be the best version of myself."
  • "Thanks to you, I have learned what true love means - sharing the small and big moments, and always being there for each other."

Thanksgiving

• To Parents:
  • "A special thanks goes to our parents. You have taught us what it means to love and be loved."
  • "Thank you for your unconditional support, wisdom and love. Without you, we would not be standing here today."
• To Family and Friends:
  • "Our friends and family are our foundation. Your love and friendship mean more to us than words can express."
  • "Thank you for all the beautiful memories, for your support and for always believing in us."
• To in-laws:
  • "To my new family, I feel so blessed to be part of your family. Thank you for welcoming me with open arms."
  • "I am so grateful for the love and warmth you have given me. It feels like coming home."

Advice and Life Lessons

• Advice for a Happy Marriage:
  • "Always stay honest and open with each other. Good communication is the key to a strong and loving marriage."
  • "Never take anything for granted. Keep making time for each other, even when life is busy."
• The Value of Laughing Together:
  • "Never forget to laugh together. Humour keeps love alive and makes the journey through life so much more enjoyable."
  • "Life is serious enough sometimes - make sure you continue to enjoy the small, funny moments together."
• Cherish the Little Things:
  • "It is the small gestures, the unexpected hugs, and the moments of silence together that are most precious."
  • "A marriage is like a garden - make sure you water it daily with love, attention and patience."

Humour and Lightness

• Airy Notes:
  • "They say marriage is all about give and take... and today I admit that fortunately I took the best deal!"
  • "I still remember the first time [groom/bride] tried to cook for me... It was one of those moments when I knew this was going to be an adventure!"
• Funny Stories:
  • "There have been so many moments when we have laughed together until it brought tears to our eyes. Like that time we got lost on our road trip and eventually discovered we were just driving in circles!"
  • "I will never forget the day [groom/bride] surprised me with a homemade dinner. It was... unforgettable, so to speak."

Future vision and promise

• Looking to the future:
  • "I look forward to building a life together, with all the ups and downs that come with it. Together, we can handle anything."
  • "May every day ahead be a new opportunity to love and grow together."
• Promise to Partner:
  • "I promise you that I will always be there for you, in good times and bad. We will laugh together, cry together, and grow stronger together."
  • "I choose you, today and every day. You are my home, my refuge, and my greatest love."

Symbolic Gestures and Traditions

• Symbolic Wishes:
  • "May our marriage be filled with the same joy we feel today, and may our love continue to blossom through the years."
  • "As a tree grows with strong roots and branches stretching to the sky, so may our love grow and guide us through life."
• Honouring Traditions:
  • "We also want to take a moment to reflect on the traditions that brought us together here today. These rituals remind us of the power of love and community."
  • "The rings we exchanged today are not only symbols of our love, but also of our commitment to stay together no matter what."

Closing

• Toast:
  • "Let's raise a glass together to love, to friendship, and to a future full of happiness. Cheers!"
  • "Here's to us, to our journey together, and to all the beautiful moments yet to come. Let's enjoy today and look forward to the future."
• Thank you to the Guests:
  • "Once again, thank you to everyone here today. You make this day unforgettable for us."
  • "Thank you for being part of this special moment in our lives. We will cherish this day forever."
• Final message:
  • "Love is the most beautiful gift we can give each other. Let us celebrate this love and together ensure that it continues to grow."
  • "May the love we share today be a light that illuminates our path, now and always."

With this comprehensive set of elements, you can make any speech adapt to the style, tone and message that best suits you and your special day. Whether you choose an emotional, humorous or traditional approach, these building blocks give you the flexibility to create something truly personal and memorable.

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