What does engagement mean?
A couple is engaged if they have both agreed to marry each other. This is done on the basis of a marriage proposal. One person takes the initiative and makes a marriage proposal. The other either accepts this or rejects it. A marriage proposal has no official guideline. You do this as grandly as you feel comfortable.
Choose your wedding date
When you start plans the first choice is to choose the wedding date. The days most often chosen are Friday and Saturday. Hhe high season is from May to September. Therefore, keep in mind the crowds and be especially on time when booking your suppliers as the wedding day between these months is.
The engagement ring
An engagement ring is given to the other during an proposal. In most cases, the man gives the ring to the woman. If the other person's proposal accepts, the engagement is sealed with the ring. The ring shows to the outside world that the other person is officially engaged. The engagement ring is worn on the left hand.
The difference between a wedding and engagement ring
A wedding ring is not the same as an engagement ring. An engagement ring is worn from the engagement to the wedding day. On the wedding day itself, the wedding rings are brought out. The couple slides these on each other's finger. A wedding and engagement ring can be bought as a set. It is not compulsory to gift an engagement ring. Some couples choose to purchase only a wedding ring.
How long will you stay engaged?
You remain engaged until you say yes to each other at the altar. So it depends on how soon you get married. This can take one year, but also 3 years. It depends entirely on the circumstances.
The engagement shoot
With a engagement shoot the engagement is celebrated. During a shoot At a location of your choice, your love will be photographed. You are introduced to the camera, can enjoy and relax and beautiful pictures are shot. It is a nice memento of this phase of your relationship.
Send engagement cards
With an engagement card, you inform your family and friends of the engagement. On an engagement card, you mention your name and the date of the engagement. Some couples also celebrate an engagement party; in that case, this is also mentioned on the card.
Apply for a marriage licence
Before you say yes to each other, you go into betrothal. This sounds complicated, but fortunately it is not too bad. During a infidelity application you will provide all the necessary details to the municipality. Based on these details, the municipality will determine whether you can get married. After the municipality accepts the request, you will officially have the green light to get married. Find out more about a infidelity application? Then click here.
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